If the neutral side is out of the choices then go where your morality or beliefs would take you. Listen to the arguments that actually has content and try to do your research then this contradiction might be solve. The real world would always have problems whether it could be the system or the running of the system so contradictions would always be there due to opposing views we have. But when you choose a side, try to protect it and prove it with your point of views or experiences then a solution might goes within your palm.
Ang Binyag Kasi Noong na sa tiyan ka ng nanay mo ay makasalanan ka pag biniyagan ka mababawasan ang kasalanan mo